{"id":97,"date":"2009-04-14T14:26:29","date_gmt":"2009-04-14T12:26:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ilknuryilmaz.com\/?p=97"},"modified":"2009-04-14T14:26:29","modified_gmt":"2009-04-14T12:26:29","slug":"iliskilerinizde-siz-de-birer-medyum-musunuz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ilknuryilmaz.com\/iliskilerinizde-siz-de-birer-medyum-musunuz\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0130li\u015fkilerinizde siz de birer medyum musunuz?!"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Size \u201cMedyumlara inan\u0131r m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?\u201d diye sorsam san\u0131r\u0131m bir \u00e7o\u011funuz \u201cTabii ki hay\u0131r\u201d diyecektir, \u201cOlur mu hi\u00e7 \u00f6yle \u015fey!\u201d\u00a0 <\/span>diyecektir. Ancak, g\u00fcndelik ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131zdaki ili\u015fkilerimizde defalarca medyumluk yapmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz. Nas\u0131l m\u0131? Tabii ki, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n zihinlerini okumaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015farak; duygular\u0131na, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerine, bize kar\u015f\u0131 olan tav\u0131rlar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k kendi senaryolar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 yazarak<\/strong>..Bu senaryolara inanarak, duygular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 varsay\u0131mlar \u00fczerine ya\u015fayarak da ya\u015fant\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 daha karanl\u0131k bir hale getirmekte \u00fcst\u00fcm\u00fcze yok!<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00d6zellikle kad\u0131nlar cephesinde, kar\u015f\u0131 cinsle tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131ktan sonra arkas\u0131 kesilmeyen zihin okuma egzersizlerine ba\u015fland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zlemleyebilirsiniz. Bu durum \u00f6nce analiz sorular\u0131yla ba\u015flar: \u201cBeni be\u011fendi mi acaba?\u201d \u201cBu s\u00f6zleriyle ne demek istedi?\u201d, \u201cTekrar arayacak m\u0131?\u201d Bu noktada, kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nceki ya\u015fam deneyimlerinin, ki\u015filik \u00f6zelliklerinin ve g\u00f6zlemlerinin harmanlanmas\u0131 sonucunda ak\u0131l y\u00fcr\u00fctmeler, hipotezler, teoriler d\u00f6k\u00fclmeye ba\u015flar. Kad\u0131nlar a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan ne kadar enerji t\u00fcketici, pozitiflikten negatifli\u011fe bir d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f ve \u00f6z-g\u00fcven zedeleyici bir e\u011filimdir bu! Oysa, her \u015fey yeni ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r..Yeni bir ili\u015fki in\u015fa edilirken, her \u015feyi do\u011fal ak\u0131\u015f\u0131nda ya\u015famak, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 yava\u015f yava\u015f ke\u015ffetmenin keyfini \u00e7\u0131karmak varken, bu aceleye pek de gerek yoktur asl\u0131nda.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Zihin okuma konusunda kad\u0131n-erkek ayr\u0131m\u0131 yoktur, keza ili\u015fkinin niteli\u011fi de \u00f6nemli de\u011fildir. \u00d6rne\u011fin, rekabetin had safhada oldu\u011fu g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma hayat\u0131nda, i\u015f yerlerindeki ast-\u00fcst ili\u015fkileri daha da fazla \u00f6nem kazanmakta oldu\u011fundan, \u015fefinizin, m\u00fcd\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fcn tav\u0131rlar\u0131, y\u00fcz\u00fcndeki ifade, sizinle nas\u0131l konu\u015ftu\u011fu \u00fczerine de ayn\u0131 \u201czihin okuma\u201d k\u0131s\u0131r d\u00f6ng\u00fcs\u00fc ba\u015f g\u00f6sterir. Sizinle hi\u00e7 ilgisi olmasa da m\u00fcd\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fcn as\u0131k y\u00fcz\u00fc sizi s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131dan s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131ya sokar, kesin size sinirlidir, acaba nedendir, i\u015ften mi \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131lacaks\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r?! O g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcz maalesef, negatif enerjiyi i\u00e7inizde b\u00fcy\u00fctmekle ge\u00e7er, hatta i\u015ften \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda ne yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z konusunda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeye ba\u015flam\u0131\u015f bile bulabilirsiniz kendinizi.<\/span>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Zihin okuma <\/span><\/strong>ili\u015fkilerimize genellikle yarardan \u00e7ok zarar getirir, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n (bu ki\u015fi, \u00e7ok iyi tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 sand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z en yak\u0131n\u0131n\u0131z olsa bile) duygular\u0131n\u0131, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 onlardan bilgi almadan net bir bi\u00e7imde yorumlayabilmek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n zihinlerini okuyarak kendinizce<\/strong> de\u011ferlendirmeler yapmak sizi yanl\u0131\u015f yollara s\u00fcr\u00fckleyebilir, sonras\u0131nda ise ili\u015fki problemlerine<\/strong> yol a\u00e7abilir. Bu, ayn\u0131 zamanda sizin i\u00e7in de olduk\u00e7a y\u0131prat\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r. S\u00fcrekli ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7sel d\u00fcnyalar\u0131 \u00fczerine yorumlar, analizler yapman\u0131n getirdi\u011fi gerilim<\/strong> bedeninize yans\u0131yabilir: Ba\u015f, boyun, s\u0131rt, omuz a\u011fr\u0131lar\u0131; uyku sorunlar\u0131 ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 keyifsiz hale getirebilir.\u00a0<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cArt\u0131k yoruldum bu durumdan!\u201d diyorsan\u0131z, zihninizi size yarar getirecek ba\u015fka konulara yormaya karar verdiyseniz, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131daki \u00f6nerileri uygulayabilirsiniz.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

G\u00f6zlemledi\u011finiz her \u015feyi ki\u015fisel alg\u0131lamay\u0131n<\/span><\/strong>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

E\u011fer siz de s\u00fcrekli zihin okuyorsan\u0131z, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n sizin hakk\u0131n\u0131zdaki d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinin ve duygular\u0131n\u0131n birer yans\u0131malar\u0131 oldu\u011funu varsay\u0131yorsunuz demektir. Ger\u00e7ekte ise, s\u00f6z konusu ki\u015fi e\u015finiz gibi uzun s\u00fcredir tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z birisi olsa bile, yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya da yapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feylerin \u00e7o\u011fu sizle ilgili olmamakla beraber, kendi ya\u015fam\u0131 ve ko\u015fullar\u0131 ile ilgili olabilir. \u00d6zellikle evlilik gibi uzun soluklu birlikteliklerde, \u00e7iftlerin duygular\u0131n\u0131n her zaman ayn\u0131 d\u00fczeyde olmas\u0131n\u0131 beklemek \u00e7ok sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 de\u011fildir.\u00a0<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

A\u00e7\u0131k ileti\u015fim kurun<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Zihin okumak ve yorumlamak yerine ileti\u015fim kurabilirsiniz. <\/strong>Kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015fiye sorular sorarak, kendi duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ve isteklerinizi ifade edip payla\u015fabilirsiniz. S\u00f6ylemek istediklerinizi, sakin ve sayg\u0131l\u0131 bir bi\u00e7imde s\u00f6yleyerek, hem kendi varolu\u015funuzu ortaya koymu\u015f, hem de her \u015feyi netle\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in \u00f6nemli bir ad\u0131m atm\u0131\u015f olursunuz. Sessiz bir bi\u00e7imde i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyan\u0131zdan kopup gelen d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerin yerine sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ve a\u00e7\u0131k bir ileti\u015fim tarz\u0131n\u0131 benimseyerek, kendinizi zihinsel yorgunluktan ve gerilimden de kurtarabilir, \u00e7evrenizdekilerle daha kaliteli ili\u015fkiler kurabilirsiniz.<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u0130yi dileklerimle,<\/span><\/p>\n

Uzman Klinik Psikolog \u0130lknur Y\u0131lmaz<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u00a0 Size \u201cMedyumlara inan\u0131r m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?\u201d diye sorsam san\u0131r\u0131m bir \u00e7o\u011funuz \u201cTabii ki hay\u0131r\u201d diyecektir, \u201cOlur mu hi\u00e7 \u00f6yle \u015fey!\u201d\u00a0 diyecektir. Ancak, g\u00fcndelik ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131zdaki ili\u015fkilerimizde defalarca medyumluk yapmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz. Nas\u0131l m\u0131? Tabii ki, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n zihinlerini okumaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015farak; duygular\u0131na, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerine, bize kar\u015f\u0131 olan tav\u0131rlar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k kendi senaryolar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 yazarak..Bu senaryolara inanarak, duygular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 varsay\u0131mlar \u00fczerine ya\u015fayarak da ya\u015fant\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 daha karanl\u0131k bir hale getirmekte \u00fcst\u00fcm\u00fcze yok!\u00a0 \u00d6zellikle kad\u0131nlar cephesinde, kar\u015f\u0131 cinsle tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131ktan sonra arkas\u0131 kesilmeyen zihin okuma egzersizlerine ba\u015fland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zlemleyebilirsiniz. Bu durum \u00f6nce analiz sorular\u0131yla ba\u015flar: \u201cBeni be\u011fendi mi acaba?\u201d \u201cBu s\u00f6zleriyle ne demek istedi?\u201d, \u201cTekrar arayacak m\u0131?\u201d Bu noktada, kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nceki ya\u015fam deneyimlerinin, ki\u015filik \u00f6zelliklerinin ve g\u00f6zlemlerinin harmanlanmas\u0131 sonucunda ak\u0131l y\u00fcr\u00fctmeler, hipotezler, teoriler d\u00f6k\u00fclmeye ba\u015flar. Kad\u0131nlar a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan ne kadar enerji t\u00fcketici, pozitiflikten negatifli\u011fe bir d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f ve \u00f6z-g\u00fcven zedeleyici bir e\u011filimdir bu! Oysa, her \u015fey yeni ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r..Yeni bir ili\u015fki in\u015fa edilirken, her \u015feyi do\u011fal ak\u0131\u015f\u0131nda ya\u015famak, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 yava\u015f yava\u015f ke\u015ffetmenin keyfini \u00e7\u0131karmak varken, bu aceleye pek de gerek yoktur asl\u0131nda.\u00a0 Zihin okuma konusunda kad\u0131n-erkek ayr\u0131m\u0131 yoktur, keza ili\u015fkinin niteli\u011fi de \u00f6nemli de\u011fildir. \u00d6rne\u011fin, rekabetin had safhada oldu\u011fu g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma hayat\u0131nda, i\u015f yerlerindeki ast-\u00fcst ili\u015fkileri daha da fazla \u00f6nem kazanmakta oldu\u011fundan, \u015fefinizin, m\u00fcd\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fcn tav\u0131rlar\u0131, y\u00fcz\u00fcndeki ifade, sizinle nas\u0131l konu\u015ftu\u011fu \u00fczerine de ayn\u0131 \u201czihin okuma\u201d k\u0131s\u0131r d\u00f6ng\u00fcs\u00fc ba\u015f g\u00f6sterir. Sizinle hi\u00e7 ilgisi olmasa da m\u00fcd\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fcn as\u0131k y\u00fcz\u00fc sizi s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131dan s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131ya sokar, kesin size sinirlidir, acaba nedendir, i\u015ften mi \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131lacaks\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r?! O g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcz maalesef, negatif enerjiyi i\u00e7inizde b\u00fcy\u00fctmekle ge\u00e7er, hatta i\u015ften \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda ne yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z konusunda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeye ba\u015flam\u0131\u015f bile bulabilirsiniz kendinizi.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Zihin okuma ili\u015fkilerimize genellikle yarardan \u00e7ok zarar getirir, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n (bu ki\u015fi, \u00e7ok iyi tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 sand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z en yak\u0131n\u0131n\u0131z olsa bile) duygular\u0131n\u0131, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 onlardan bilgi almadan net bir bi\u00e7imde yorumlayabilmek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n zihinlerini okuyarak kendinizce de\u011ferlendirmeler yapmak sizi yanl\u0131\u015f yollara s\u00fcr\u00fckleyebilir, sonras\u0131nda ise ili\u015fki problemlerine yol a\u00e7abilir. Bu, ayn\u0131 zamanda sizin i\u00e7in de olduk\u00e7a y\u0131prat\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r. S\u00fcrekli ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7sel d\u00fcnyalar\u0131 \u00fczerine yorumlar, analizler yapman\u0131n getirdi\u011fi gerilim bedeninize yans\u0131yabilir: Ba\u015f, boyun, s\u0131rt, omuz a\u011fr\u0131lar\u0131; uyku sorunlar\u0131 ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 keyifsiz hale getirebilir.\u00a0\u00a0 \u201cArt\u0131k yoruldum bu durumdan!\u201d diyorsan\u0131z, zihninizi size yarar getirecek ba\u015fka konulara yormaya karar verdiyseniz, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131daki \u00f6nerileri uygulayabilirsiniz.\u00a0 G\u00f6zlemledi\u011finiz her \u015feyi ki\u015fisel alg\u0131lamay\u0131n\u00a0 E\u011fer siz de s\u00fcrekli zihin okuyorsan\u0131z, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n sizin hakk\u0131n\u0131zdaki d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinin ve duygular\u0131n\u0131n birer yans\u0131malar\u0131 oldu\u011funu varsay\u0131yorsunuz demektir. Ger\u00e7ekte ise, s\u00f6z konusu ki\u015fi e\u015finiz gibi uzun s\u00fcredir tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z birisi olsa bile, yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya da yapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feylerin \u00e7o\u011fu sizle ilgili olmamakla beraber, kendi ya\u015fam\u0131 ve ko\u015fullar\u0131 ile ilgili olabilir. \u00d6zellikle evlilik gibi uzun soluklu birlikteliklerde, \u00e7iftlerin duygular\u0131n\u0131n her zaman ayn\u0131 d\u00fczeyde olmas\u0131n\u0131 beklemek \u00e7ok sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 de\u011fildir.\u00a0\u00a0 A\u00e7\u0131k ileti\u015fim kurun Zihin okumak ve yorumlamak yerine ileti\u015fim kurabilirsiniz. Kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015fiye sorular sorarak, kendi duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ve isteklerinizi ifade edip payla\u015fabilirsiniz. S\u00f6ylemek istediklerinizi, sakin ve sayg\u0131l\u0131 bir bi\u00e7imde s\u00f6yleyerek, hem kendi varolu\u015funuzu ortaya koymu\u015f, hem de her \u015feyi netle\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in \u00f6nemli bir ad\u0131m atm\u0131\u015f olursunuz. 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Ancak, g\u00fcndelik ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131zdaki ili\u015fkilerimizde defalarca medyumluk yapmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz. Nas\u0131l m\u0131? Tabii ki, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n zihinlerini okumaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015farak; duygular\u0131na, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerine, bize kar\u015f\u0131 olan tav\u0131rlar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k kendi senaryolar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 yazarak..Bu senaryolara inanarak, duygular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 varsay\u0131mlar \u00fczerine ya\u015fayarak da ya\u015fant\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 daha karanl\u0131k bir hale getirmekte \u00fcst\u00fcm\u00fcze yok!\u00a0 \u00d6zellikle kad\u0131nlar cephesinde, kar\u015f\u0131 cinsle tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131ktan sonra arkas\u0131 kesilmeyen zihin okuma egzersizlerine ba\u015fland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zlemleyebilirsiniz. Bu durum \u00f6nce analiz sorular\u0131yla ba\u015flar: \u201cBeni be\u011fendi mi acaba?\u201d \u201cBu s\u00f6zleriyle ne demek istedi?\u201d, \u201cTekrar arayacak m\u0131?\u201d Bu noktada, kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nceki ya\u015fam deneyimlerinin, ki\u015filik \u00f6zelliklerinin ve g\u00f6zlemlerinin harmanlanmas\u0131 sonucunda ak\u0131l y\u00fcr\u00fctmeler, hipotezler, teoriler d\u00f6k\u00fclmeye ba\u015flar. Kad\u0131nlar a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan ne kadar enerji t\u00fcketici, pozitiflikten negatifli\u011fe bir d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f ve \u00f6z-g\u00fcven zedeleyici bir e\u011filimdir bu! Oysa, her \u015fey yeni ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r..Yeni bir ili\u015fki in\u015fa edilirken, her \u015feyi do\u011fal ak\u0131\u015f\u0131nda ya\u015famak, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 yava\u015f yava\u015f ke\u015ffetmenin keyfini \u00e7\u0131karmak varken, bu aceleye pek de gerek yoktur asl\u0131nda.\u00a0 Zihin okuma konusunda kad\u0131n-erkek ayr\u0131m\u0131 yoktur, keza ili\u015fkinin niteli\u011fi de \u00f6nemli de\u011fildir. \u00d6rne\u011fin, rekabetin had safhada oldu\u011fu g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma hayat\u0131nda, i\u015f yerlerindeki ast-\u00fcst ili\u015fkileri daha da fazla \u00f6nem kazanmakta oldu\u011fundan, \u015fefinizin, m\u00fcd\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fcn tav\u0131rlar\u0131, y\u00fcz\u00fcndeki ifade, sizinle nas\u0131l konu\u015ftu\u011fu \u00fczerine de ayn\u0131 \u201czihin okuma\u201d k\u0131s\u0131r d\u00f6ng\u00fcs\u00fc ba\u015f g\u00f6sterir. Sizinle hi\u00e7 ilgisi olmasa da m\u00fcd\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fcn as\u0131k y\u00fcz\u00fc sizi s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131dan s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131ya sokar, kesin size sinirlidir, acaba nedendir, i\u015ften mi \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131lacaks\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r?! O g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcz maalesef, negatif enerjiyi i\u00e7inizde b\u00fcy\u00fctmekle ge\u00e7er, hatta i\u015ften \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda ne yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z konusunda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeye ba\u015flam\u0131\u015f bile bulabilirsiniz kendinizi.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Zihin okuma ili\u015fkilerimize genellikle yarardan \u00e7ok zarar getirir, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n (bu ki\u015fi, \u00e7ok iyi tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 sand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z en yak\u0131n\u0131n\u0131z olsa bile) duygular\u0131n\u0131, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 onlardan bilgi almadan net bir bi\u00e7imde yorumlayabilmek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n zihinlerini okuyarak kendinizce de\u011ferlendirmeler yapmak sizi yanl\u0131\u015f yollara s\u00fcr\u00fckleyebilir, sonras\u0131nda ise ili\u015fki problemlerine yol a\u00e7abilir. Bu, ayn\u0131 zamanda sizin i\u00e7in de olduk\u00e7a y\u0131prat\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r. S\u00fcrekli ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7sel d\u00fcnyalar\u0131 \u00fczerine yorumlar, analizler yapman\u0131n getirdi\u011fi gerilim bedeninize yans\u0131yabilir: Ba\u015f, boyun, s\u0131rt, omuz a\u011fr\u0131lar\u0131; uyku sorunlar\u0131 ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 keyifsiz hale getirebilir.\u00a0\u00a0 \u201cArt\u0131k yoruldum bu durumdan!\u201d diyorsan\u0131z, zihninizi size yarar getirecek ba\u015fka konulara yormaya karar verdiyseniz, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131daki \u00f6nerileri uygulayabilirsiniz.\u00a0 G\u00f6zlemledi\u011finiz her \u015feyi ki\u015fisel alg\u0131lamay\u0131n\u00a0 E\u011fer siz de s\u00fcrekli zihin okuyorsan\u0131z, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n sizin hakk\u0131n\u0131zdaki d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinin ve duygular\u0131n\u0131n birer yans\u0131malar\u0131 oldu\u011funu varsay\u0131yorsunuz demektir. Ger\u00e7ekte ise, s\u00f6z konusu ki\u015fi e\u015finiz gibi uzun s\u00fcredir tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z birisi olsa bile, yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya da yapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feylerin \u00e7o\u011fu sizle ilgili olmamakla beraber, kendi ya\u015fam\u0131 ve ko\u015fullar\u0131 ile ilgili olabilir. \u00d6zellikle evlilik gibi uzun soluklu birlikteliklerde, \u00e7iftlerin duygular\u0131n\u0131n her zaman ayn\u0131 d\u00fczeyde olmas\u0131n\u0131 beklemek \u00e7ok sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 de\u011fildir.\u00a0\u00a0 A\u00e7\u0131k ileti\u015fim kurun Zihin okumak ve yorumlamak yerine ileti\u015fim kurabilirsiniz. Kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015fiye sorular sorarak, kendi duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ve isteklerinizi ifade edip payla\u015fabilirsiniz. S\u00f6ylemek istediklerinizi, sakin ve sayg\u0131l\u0131 bir bi\u00e7imde s\u00f6yleyerek, hem kendi varolu\u015funuzu ortaya koymu\u015f, hem de her \u015feyi netle\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in \u00f6nemli bir ad\u0131m atm\u0131\u015f olursunuz. 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Ancak, g\u00fcndelik ya\u015fam\u0131m\u0131zdaki ili\u015fkilerimizde defalarca medyumluk yapmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz. Nas\u0131l m\u0131? Tabii ki, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n zihinlerini okumaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015farak; duygular\u0131na, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerine, bize kar\u015f\u0131 olan tav\u0131rlar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k kendi senaryolar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 yazarak..Bu senaryolara inanarak, duygular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 varsay\u0131mlar \u00fczerine ya\u015fayarak da ya\u015fant\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 daha karanl\u0131k bir hale getirmekte \u00fcst\u00fcm\u00fcze yok!\u00a0 \u00d6zellikle kad\u0131nlar cephesinde, kar\u015f\u0131 cinsle tan\u0131\u015ft\u0131ktan sonra arkas\u0131 kesilmeyen zihin okuma egzersizlerine ba\u015fland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zlemleyebilirsiniz. Bu durum \u00f6nce analiz sorular\u0131yla ba\u015flar: \u201cBeni be\u011fendi mi acaba?\u201d \u201cBu s\u00f6zleriyle ne demek istedi?\u201d, \u201cTekrar arayacak m\u0131?\u201d Bu noktada, kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nceki ya\u015fam deneyimlerinin, ki\u015filik \u00f6zelliklerinin ve g\u00f6zlemlerinin harmanlanmas\u0131 sonucunda ak\u0131l y\u00fcr\u00fctmeler, hipotezler, teoriler d\u00f6k\u00fclmeye ba\u015flar. Kad\u0131nlar a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan ne kadar enerji t\u00fcketici, pozitiflikten negatifli\u011fe bir d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f ve \u00f6z-g\u00fcven zedeleyici bir e\u011filimdir bu! Oysa, her \u015fey yeni ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r..Yeni bir ili\u015fki in\u015fa edilirken, her \u015feyi do\u011fal ak\u0131\u015f\u0131nda ya\u015famak, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 yava\u015f yava\u015f ke\u015ffetmenin keyfini \u00e7\u0131karmak varken, bu aceleye pek de gerek yoktur asl\u0131nda.\u00a0 Zihin okuma konusunda kad\u0131n-erkek ayr\u0131m\u0131 yoktur, keza ili\u015fkinin niteli\u011fi de \u00f6nemli de\u011fildir. \u00d6rne\u011fin, rekabetin had safhada oldu\u011fu g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fcn \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma hayat\u0131nda, i\u015f yerlerindeki ast-\u00fcst ili\u015fkileri daha da fazla \u00f6nem kazanmakta oldu\u011fundan, \u015fefinizin, m\u00fcd\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fcn tav\u0131rlar\u0131, y\u00fcz\u00fcndeki ifade, sizinle nas\u0131l konu\u015ftu\u011fu \u00fczerine de ayn\u0131 \u201czihin okuma\u201d k\u0131s\u0131r d\u00f6ng\u00fcs\u00fc ba\u015f g\u00f6sterir. Sizinle hi\u00e7 ilgisi olmasa da m\u00fcd\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fcn as\u0131k y\u00fcz\u00fc sizi s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131dan s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131ya sokar, kesin size sinirlidir, acaba nedendir, i\u015ften mi \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131lacaks\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r?! O g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcz maalesef, negatif enerjiyi i\u00e7inizde b\u00fcy\u00fctmekle ge\u00e7er, hatta i\u015ften \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda ne yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z konusunda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeye ba\u015flam\u0131\u015f bile bulabilirsiniz kendinizi.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Zihin okuma ili\u015fkilerimize genellikle yarardan \u00e7ok zarar getirir, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bir ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n (bu ki\u015fi, \u00e7ok iyi tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 sand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z en yak\u0131n\u0131n\u0131z olsa bile) duygular\u0131n\u0131, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 onlardan bilgi almadan net bir bi\u00e7imde yorumlayabilmek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n zihinlerini okuyarak kendinizce de\u011ferlendirmeler yapmak sizi yanl\u0131\u015f yollara s\u00fcr\u00fckleyebilir, sonras\u0131nda ise ili\u015fki problemlerine yol a\u00e7abilir. Bu, ayn\u0131 zamanda sizin i\u00e7in de olduk\u00e7a y\u0131prat\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r. S\u00fcrekli ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7sel d\u00fcnyalar\u0131 \u00fczerine yorumlar, analizler yapman\u0131n getirdi\u011fi gerilim bedeninize yans\u0131yabilir: Ba\u015f, boyun, s\u0131rt, omuz a\u011fr\u0131lar\u0131; uyku sorunlar\u0131 ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 keyifsiz hale getirebilir.\u00a0\u00a0 \u201cArt\u0131k yoruldum bu durumdan!\u201d diyorsan\u0131z, zihninizi size yarar getirecek ba\u015fka konulara yormaya karar verdiyseniz, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131daki \u00f6nerileri uygulayabilirsiniz.\u00a0 G\u00f6zlemledi\u011finiz her \u015feyi ki\u015fisel alg\u0131lamay\u0131n\u00a0 E\u011fer siz de s\u00fcrekli zihin okuyorsan\u0131z, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n sizin hakk\u0131n\u0131zdaki d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinin ve duygular\u0131n\u0131n birer yans\u0131malar\u0131 oldu\u011funu varsay\u0131yorsunuz demektir. Ger\u00e7ekte ise, s\u00f6z konusu ki\u015fi e\u015finiz gibi uzun s\u00fcredir tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z birisi olsa bile, yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya da yapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015feylerin \u00e7o\u011fu sizle ilgili olmamakla beraber, kendi ya\u015fam\u0131 ve ko\u015fullar\u0131 ile ilgili olabilir. \u00d6zellikle evlilik gibi uzun soluklu birlikteliklerde, \u00e7iftlerin duygular\u0131n\u0131n her zaman ayn\u0131 d\u00fczeyde olmas\u0131n\u0131 beklemek \u00e7ok sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 de\u011fildir.\u00a0\u00a0 A\u00e7\u0131k ileti\u015fim kurun Zihin okumak ve yorumlamak yerine ileti\u015fim kurabilirsiniz. Kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki ki\u015fiye sorular sorarak, kendi duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ve isteklerinizi ifade edip payla\u015fabilirsiniz. S\u00f6ylemek istediklerinizi, sakin ve sayg\u0131l\u0131 bir bi\u00e7imde s\u00f6yleyerek, hem kendi varolu\u015funuzu ortaya koymu\u015f, hem de her \u015feyi netle\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in \u00f6nemli bir ad\u0131m atm\u0131\u015f olursunuz. Sessiz bir bi\u00e7imde i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyan\u0131zdan kopup gelen d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerin yerine sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ve a\u00e7\u0131k bir ileti\u015fim tarz\u0131n\u0131 benimseyerek, kendinizi zihinsel yorgunluktan ve gerilimden de kurtarabilir, \u00e7evrenizdekilerle daha kaliteli ili\u015fkiler kurabilirsiniz. \u00a0 \u00a0 \u0130yi dileklerimle, Uzman Klinik Psikolog \u0130lknur Y\u0131lmaz \u00a0","og_url":"https:\/\/ilknuryilmaz.com\/iliskilerinizde-siz-de-birer-medyum-musunuz\/","og_site_name":"Uzman Klinik Psikolog \u0130lknur Y\u0131lmaz","article_publisher":"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/UzmanKlinikPsikologIlknurYilmazAytac\/","article_published_time":"2009-04-14T12:26:29+00:00","twitter_card":"summary_large_image","twitter_image":"https:\/\/ilknuryilmaz.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/astronomy_01.jpg","twitter_creator":"@PsikologIlknur","twitter_site":"@PsikologIlknur","twitter_misc":{"Yazan:":"Uzm. 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