{"id":1477,"date":"2016-11-16T14:05:29","date_gmt":"2016-11-16T12:05:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ilknuryilmaz.com\/?p=1477"},"modified":"2016-11-16T14:05:29","modified_gmt":"2016-11-16T12:05:29","slug":"tek-eslilik-mi-cok-eslilik-mi-bir-psikolog-gozuyle","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ilknuryilmaz.com\/tek-eslilik-mi-cok-eslilik-mi-bir-psikolog-gozuyle\/","title":{"rendered":"“Tek e\u015flilik mi \u00c7ok e\u015flilik mi?” Bir psikolog g\u00f6z\u00fcyle.."},"content":{"rendered":"![\"cokesllik\"](\"http:\/\/www.ilknuryilmaz.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/cokesllik.jpg\")
\u0130nsan biyo-psiko-sosyal varl\u0131kt\u0131r. Bu nedenle, her olguyu sadece biyolojik a\u00e7\u0131dan de\u011ferlendirmek olduk\u00e7a indirgemeci bir yakla\u015f\u0131md\u0131r ve bize ge\u00e7erli\/g\u00fcvenilir sonu\u00e7lar vermez. Davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131, tutumlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 sadece biyolojik fakt\u00f6rler belirlemez. \u0130\u00e7sel d\u00fcrt\u00fcleri psikolojik ve sosyal fakt\u00f6rlerle birlikte de\u011ferlendirmek gerekir. \u00d6rne\u011fin herkesin i\u00e7inde seks d\u00fcrt\u00fcs\u00fc vard\u0131r ancak, kimse sokakta \u00e7ekici g\u00f6r\u00fcnen birisiyle hemen orada seks yapmaz! Ya da \u00f6rne\u011fin, \u00f6fke, k\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131k insana \u00f6zg\u00fc do\u011fal bir duygudur, ama biz \u00f6fkemizin bizi g\u00f6t\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc yere gitmeyiz! Tam tersine onu kontrol ederiz, d\u00fcrt\u00fclerimize g\u00f6re ya\u015famay\u0131 de\u011fil, d\u00fcrt\u00fclerimizi uygun durumlarda, ko\u015fullarda ve bi\u00e7imlerde d\u0131\u015fa vurmay\u0131 se\u00e7eriz. Bu ba\u011flamda, tek e\u015flilik- \u00e7ok e\u015flilik kavramlar\u0131n\u0131 tart\u0131\u015f\u0131rken, d\u00fcrt\u00fclerimizi ya da evrimle\u015fme s\u00fcrecinin ba\u015f\u0131ndaki atalar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n hayatlar\u0131n\u0131 referans almak ve sanki bize hayat\u0131n ve insan olmaya dair olgular\u0131n s\u0131rr\u0131n\u0131 bunlar verecekmi\u015f gibi, en do\u011fru yan\u0131tlar burada sakl\u0131ym\u0131\u015f gibi bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi benimsemek b\u00fcy\u00fck bir muhakeme hatas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Tek e\u015flilik do\u011faya ayk\u0131r\u0131 m\u0131d\u0131r sorusu yerine, bug\u00fcnk\u00fc insan\u0131n durumuna, tercihlerine, se\u00e7imlerine, motivasyonuna, tutumuna bakarak, bug\u00fcn ya\u015fayan insan\u0131n \u00f6ncelikli ihtiyac\u0131 nedir diye sormak daha rasyoneldir. Evrimle\u015fme s\u00fcrecinde, y\u00fczy\u0131llar ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e, insan da, bir zamanlar onun i\u00e7in bir zamanlar fonksiyonel olan, onu mutlu eden davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 da de\u011fi\u015fmi\u015ftir. Tarihsel olarak her d\u00f6nemin farkl\u0131 atmosferi, buna ba\u011fl\u0131 olarak de\u011fi\u015fen de\u011ferleri ve mutluluk tan\u0131mlar\u0131 vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Psikolojik geli\u015fim a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda insan\u0131n anneyle olan ilk ili\u015fkisinde \u015fekillenen ba\u011flanma ihtiyac\u0131 ve bunun ne kadar kar\u015f\u0131land\u0131\u011f\u0131 psikolojik sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131l\u0131k a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan \u00e7ok \u00f6nem ta\u015f\u0131r ve ki\u015finin yeti\u015fkinlikte kurdu\u011fu ili\u015fkilerinde belirleyici ve \u00f6nemli bir unsurdur. Ba\u011flanabilen ki\u015filer, yak\u0131n ili\u015fkiler kurabilen ve s\u00fcrd\u00fcrebilen ki\u015filerdir ve hayatlar\u0131nda daha stabil, tatmin dolu ve huzurludurlar. Bo\u015fanma istatistiklerinin her y\u0131l artmas\u0131na ra\u011fmen evlilik kurumu y\u00fczy\u0131llard\u0131r y\u0131k\u0131lmayan kurumlar aras\u0131ndad\u0131r! Bu tesad\u00fcfi bir durum olmasa gerek\u2026 Kad\u0131n ve erkek, bo\u015fanmak, ya da hayat\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ok e\u015fli ya\u015famak i\u00e7in evlenmiyorlar. A\u015fk, sevgi, ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131k, aidiyet duygusu, g\u00fcven, huzur, yol arkada\u015f\u0131 olma gibi kavramlar \u00f6ncelikli oluyor ve herkes bu duygular\u0131 ya\u015fayabilece\u011fi tek bir insanla olmay\u0131 istiyor.<\/p>\n
Buna kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde \u00e7ok e\u015fli ya\u015fayan ki\u015filerin ya\u015famlar\u0131na bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, bu ki\u015filerin \u00e7e\u015fitli psikolojik sorunlar geli\u015ftirmeye ve depresyona e\u011filimli olabildiklerini s\u0131kl\u0131kla g\u00f6rebilmekteyiz. Yine bu ki\u015filerin ifadelerinde, tatminsizlik ve bo\u015fluk hissi tan\u0131mlamalar\u0131 olduk\u00e7a yayg\u0131nd\u0131r.<\/p>\n
\u0130llknur Y\u0131lmaz Ayta\u00e7
\nD\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm Psikolojik Dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131k Merkezi
\nBak\u0131rk\u00f6y \/ \u0130stanbul
\nTel: 0212 661 78 87<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u0130nsan biyo-psiko-sosyal varl\u0131kt\u0131r. Bu nedenle, her olguyu sadece biyolojik a\u00e7\u0131dan de\u011ferlendirmek olduk\u00e7a indirgemeci bir yakla\u015f\u0131md\u0131r ve bize ge\u00e7erli\/g\u00fcvenilir sonu\u00e7lar vermez. Davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131, tutumlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 sadece biyolojik fakt\u00f6rler belirlemez. \u0130\u00e7sel d\u00fcrt\u00fcleri psikolojik ve sosyal fakt\u00f6rlerle birlikte de\u011ferlendirmek gerekir. \u00d6rne\u011fin herkesin i\u00e7inde seks d\u00fcrt\u00fcs\u00fc vard\u0131r ancak, kimse sokakta \u00e7ekici g\u00f6r\u00fcnen birisiyle hemen orada seks yapmaz! Ya da \u00f6rne\u011fin, \u00f6fke, k\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131k insana \u00f6zg\u00fc do\u011fal bir duygudur, ama biz \u00f6fkemizin bizi g\u00f6t\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc yere gitmeyiz! Tam tersine onu kontrol ederiz, d\u00fcrt\u00fclerimize g\u00f6re ya\u015famay\u0131 de\u011fil, d\u00fcrt\u00fclerimizi uygun durumlarda, ko\u015fullarda ve bi\u00e7imlerde d\u0131\u015fa vurmay\u0131 se\u00e7eriz. Bu ba\u011flamda, tek e\u015flilik- \u00e7ok e\u015flilik kavramlar\u0131n\u0131 tart\u0131\u015f\u0131rken, d\u00fcrt\u00fclerimizi ya da evrimle\u015fme s\u00fcrecinin ba\u015f\u0131ndaki atalar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n hayatlar\u0131n\u0131 referans almak ve sanki bize hayat\u0131n ve insan olmaya dair olgular\u0131n s\u0131rr\u0131n\u0131 bunlar verecekmi\u015f gibi, en do\u011fru yan\u0131tlar burada sakl\u0131ym\u0131\u015f gibi bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi benimsemek b\u00fcy\u00fck bir muhakeme hatas\u0131d\u0131r. Tek e\u015flilik do\u011faya ayk\u0131r\u0131 m\u0131d\u0131r sorusu yerine, bug\u00fcnk\u00fc insan\u0131n durumuna, tercihlerine, se\u00e7imlerine, motivasyonuna, tutumuna bakarak, bug\u00fcn ya\u015fayan insan\u0131n \u00f6ncelikli ihtiyac\u0131 nedir diye sormak daha rasyoneldir. Evrimle\u015fme s\u00fcrecinde, y\u00fczy\u0131llar ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e, insan da, bir zamanlar onun i\u00e7in bir zamanlar fonksiyonel olan, onu mutlu eden davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 da de\u011fi\u015fmi\u015ftir. Tarihsel olarak her d\u00f6nemin farkl\u0131 atmosferi, buna ba\u011fl\u0131 olarak de\u011fi\u015fen de\u011ferleri ve mutluluk tan\u0131mlar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Psikolojik geli\u015fim a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda insan\u0131n anneyle olan ilk ili\u015fkisinde \u015fekillenen ba\u011flanma ihtiyac\u0131 ve bunun ne kadar kar\u015f\u0131land\u0131\u011f\u0131 psikolojik sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131l\u0131k a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan \u00e7ok \u00f6nem ta\u015f\u0131r ve ki\u015finin yeti\u015fkinlikte kurdu\u011fu ili\u015fkilerinde belirleyici ve \u00f6nemli bir unsurdur. Ba\u011flanabilen ki\u015filer, yak\u0131n ili\u015fkiler kurabilen ve s\u00fcrd\u00fcrebilen ki\u015filerdir ve hayatlar\u0131nda daha stabil, tatmin dolu ve huzurludurlar. Bo\u015fanma istatistiklerinin her y\u0131l artmas\u0131na ra\u011fmen evlilik kurumu y\u00fczy\u0131llard\u0131r y\u0131k\u0131lmayan kurumlar aras\u0131ndad\u0131r! Bu tesad\u00fcfi bir durum olmasa gerek\u2026 Kad\u0131n ve erkek, bo\u015fanmak, ya da hayat\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ok e\u015fli ya\u015famak i\u00e7in evlenmiyorlar. A\u015fk, sevgi, ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131k, aidiyet duygusu, g\u00fcven, huzur, yol arkada\u015f\u0131 olma gibi kavramlar \u00f6ncelikli oluyor ve herkes bu duygular\u0131 ya\u015fayabilece\u011fi tek bir insanla olmay\u0131 istiyor. Buna kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde \u00e7ok e\u015fli ya\u015fayan ki\u015filerin ya\u015famlar\u0131na bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, bu ki\u015filerin \u00e7e\u015fitli psikolojik sorunlar geli\u015ftirmeye ve depresyona e\u011filimli olabildiklerini s\u0131kl\u0131kla g\u00f6rebilmekteyiz. Yine bu ki\u015filerin ifadelerinde, tatminsizlik ve bo\u015fluk hissi tan\u0131mlamalar\u0131 olduk\u00e7a yayg\u0131nd\u0131r. \u0130llknur Y\u0131lmaz Ayta\u00e7 D\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm Psikolojik Dan\u0131\u015fmanl\u0131k Merkezi Bak\u0131rk\u00f6y \/ \u0130stanbul Tel: 0212 661 78 87<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4023,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[73],"tags":[174,448,449,450,219,61,451,452,453,454,455],"yoast_head":"\n
"Tek e\u015flilik mi \u00c7ok e\u015flilik mi?" Bir psikolog g\u00f6z\u00fcyle.. - Uzman Klinik Psikolog \u0130lknur Y\u0131lmaz<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/ilknuryilmaz.com\/tek-eslilik-mi-cok-eslilik-mi-bir-psikolog-gozuyle\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"tr_TR\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\""Tek e\u015flilik mi \u00c7ok e\u015flilik mi?" Bir psikolog g\u00f6z\u00fcyle.. - Uzman Klinik Psikolog \u0130lknur Y\u0131lmaz\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"\u0130nsan biyo-psiko-sosyal varl\u0131kt\u0131r. Bu nedenle, her olguyu sadece biyolojik a\u00e7\u0131dan de\u011ferlendirmek olduk\u00e7a indirgemeci bir yakla\u015f\u0131md\u0131r ve bize ge\u00e7erli\/g\u00fcvenilir sonu\u00e7lar vermez. 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Bu ba\u011flamda, tek e\u015flilik- \u00e7ok e\u015flilik kavramlar\u0131n\u0131 tart\u0131\u015f\u0131rken, d\u00fcrt\u00fclerimizi ya da evrimle\u015fme s\u00fcrecinin ba\u015f\u0131ndaki atalar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n hayatlar\u0131n\u0131 referans almak ve sanki bize hayat\u0131n ve insan olmaya dair olgular\u0131n s\u0131rr\u0131n\u0131 bunlar verecekmi\u015f gibi, en do\u011fru yan\u0131tlar burada sakl\u0131ym\u0131\u015f gibi bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceyi benimsemek b\u00fcy\u00fck bir muhakeme hatas\u0131d\u0131r. Tek e\u015flilik do\u011faya ayk\u0131r\u0131 m\u0131d\u0131r sorusu yerine, bug\u00fcnk\u00fc insan\u0131n durumuna, tercihlerine, se\u00e7imlerine, motivasyonuna, tutumuna bakarak, bug\u00fcn ya\u015fayan insan\u0131n \u00f6ncelikli ihtiyac\u0131 nedir diye sormak daha rasyoneldir. Evrimle\u015fme s\u00fcrecinde, y\u00fczy\u0131llar ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e, insan da, bir zamanlar onun i\u00e7in bir zamanlar fonksiyonel olan, onu mutlu eden davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 da de\u011fi\u015fmi\u015ftir. Tarihsel olarak her d\u00f6nemin farkl\u0131 atmosferi, buna ba\u011fl\u0131 olarak de\u011fi\u015fen de\u011ferleri ve mutluluk tan\u0131mlar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Psikolojik geli\u015fim a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda insan\u0131n anneyle olan ilk ili\u015fkisinde \u015fekillenen ba\u011flanma ihtiyac\u0131 ve bunun ne kadar kar\u015f\u0131land\u0131\u011f\u0131 psikolojik sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131l\u0131k a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan \u00e7ok \u00f6nem ta\u015f\u0131r ve ki\u015finin yeti\u015fkinlikte kurdu\u011fu ili\u015fkilerinde belirleyici ve \u00f6nemli bir unsurdur. Ba\u011flanabilen ki\u015filer, yak\u0131n ili\u015fkiler kurabilen ve s\u00fcrd\u00fcrebilen ki\u015filerdir ve hayatlar\u0131nda daha stabil, tatmin dolu ve huzurludurlar. 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